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Want Love Back | Love Problems | Love Advice

He angry with me from 15 days because my fault i am really very2 sorry about it i don' t lost my love he break my relation i dont break my relation please help me to get my real true love i really love him really please help what i do to convence my love please please help i want him today

Love with younger boy | Love Problems

Hello, iam married..after 9 yra I fall in love with a young boy woh 8 yrs younger than me....we both in a relation for 6 months.... after some time he just break up...and now its very for me to forget him.....I really love him so much....

Teen Love | Love Problems

Me And my boyfriend love each other alot but we are from different castes i know very well that my parents doesnot let me to marry him But my parents also loves me alot and dreams big for me But also i dont want to loose my true love I am very confused what should i choose?

Trust Issues | Love problems

My bf and I are in a relation since 5 yrs . We have started doing job just after completing our btech since 1 year . In clg we used to meet every day and spend good times together. Since we joined ofc he is not much interested to spend quality times together., I have no trust issues but his disinterest in spending time with me is something I cannot bear. We have no physical intimacy because he never shows interest in it . He goes outing with his ofc colleagues for whole day but if he goes out with me then it's on a restaurant for 2 hrs . He posts pics with his other girls colleagues on his fb but if I post pics with him he asks me to remove because his family don't like me , but my family loves him a lot ..We are already 24.. I don't feel like I will have a good future with him ..what should I do ?

Parent Pressure

I loved a guy...who is 3 years elder than me...he too loved me..and now there is an issue in his home..because.. of his sister's love..he was emotionally caught by his parents..and he told me that...he wants to live for his parents...and his parents can't bear..that he is also in love...so he said me to end the relationship... but I can't live without him...what could I do to make him mine...with his parents support...I'm 19..he is 22...years...what shall I do..I seek your advice... Nick Replies: First check how will your parents react. If they are supportive then ask them to help you in convincing the guy's parents. God Bless

One Sided Love

I love a girl who is also my friend. We have been friends for last seven years since 2009. I have feelings from then only. We are in touch very frequently. We see each other once a week. We go for movies,events, lunch, dinner, shopping, together. In 2010, I confessed my love to her, but she rejected telling she has a boy friend and few days later she stopped talking to me. So after one year in last of 2011 she again started talking to me. That time she said that she broke with her boy friend. Then we again started seeing each other. Again I proposed to her and again she stopped talking to me. Later in 2015, She started talking to me after I said sorry and I convinced her that I will be remain just friends not more than that. Now its been one and half years and we have been regularly seeing each other. She takes these meets as only friendly meets not dates. She not only sees me for movies, dinner, lunch or other events. She goes out with her other male friends as well similarly like me

I am substituted, I want her back

hi I am from India Typical Hindu family. since January 2017 I was kind of avoiding my gf just to focus on my studies to get a job so that we can marry soon but die to this she always had fights WID me. we didnt talk for few days. but I convinced her after few days again fights but during this period we also had good times and romance also in June stsrting she msged that she will see another guy,I just ignored her msg few days after on my bday she just msged me. on June 14 or 15 all her fone got off except one. I tried to call bit no answer now whole of July 2017 I tried to covince her by my msg romantic once our past romance.,times we spent etc I begged her waited her in front of her classes so that I could covince her once she to felt pity on me or what she said to have a lassi drink then go home coz I was swetting badly in the son when she saw me but on July 29 I sneeked into her hostel nd was shivring coz it would had a havock if I was caught I touched her feet to forgive me but sh

Either To Wait Or Not

In a coaching class a mate a guy.. He is hardworking, honest there is no doubt about it. he started to sat with me daily in classroom bcoz i am so good in study. he cares me alot bcoz of thiz i started luv him..i thinked that he also luved me. due to this i propose him in msg..he didn't reply me bcoz he understand that i don't want to propose first. then next day he propose me and i said yes..his exam is on june and my exam is on dec..after propose we r so happy. after 2 month of met we get intimated not sex..but smooch and most of.. when i am asked him that can we marry in future he said not no not yes just say in village luv marriage is not allowed.. then after completion of course we get separated i just had a phone number of him and nothing else. he is from some city and i am from some city. few days after his number continuously get switched off. i was thinked that he just want romance from me no love.daily i cried..then when my revision class is start for dec exam he cam

Love Problems

There is this guy i have been recently dating and he seems very weird and mysterious to me . He never calls me during day time, rarely texts me and when i call him , he never receives. He calls me always at around 3 am in the morning and when i ask him what does he do that late he says that he usually sleeps till late during day time so he does his most of the work during night time. He doesnot like me asking him as to why he doesnot call me and he says not to doubt him . He always says he will call me and never does , its only after 5 - 6 times of me callig him that he cals me back. I dont understand whats going on . Nick replies I think you should meet and discuss this in person. It is important to know the person well before you take a plunge. His behavior doesn't indicate anything negative at all but as you have started doubting it it better to communicate

Priority Mismatch

I'm madly in love with my boyfriend and so he is,now we thinking of taking our relationship into the next level,the problem is that he wants atleast one kid before marriage but I want them all after getting married...

Love Swapper | Love Problems & Solutions

i am loving a guy from one year.last year sep he came into my lyf we became close in a short period after 3 months his ex has came into his lyf.then he started avoiding me.he has fully changed.now he is speaking to me.but just like a frnd.i cant live without him what to do? Nick Replies: If somebody treats you as an option never ever making him / her your priority. I think I answered your query. Good Luck & God Bless

Not able to move on | Love Problems & Solutions

He is the one who loved me first when I start to love him he star changing and he broke up with me and after six months we we started dating again but at that six months we was having sex cuz I ask him if we could be friends with benefit cuz I don't want him to go with other girls and again he brok up with me I begged him but nothing changed it been 2 years now I can't forget him and when he wants me he call and I go we do our things as usual even when he huv girlfriend so what can I do I love him I try to stop thinking of him but I can't. Nick Replies: The toughest thing to do is not to miss someone. Well it comes with practice and being engaged in something that you would love to do. So primarily identify what are those things that would make you happy? It could be anyting right from calling up your mom, going out with firends, taking up a hobby, working out or anyting that would make your life better, the best thing to do all of the above. Get going gal, life is b

Should I move on? | Love Problems & Solutions

I have two problems mashed together in a way, I like this girl, extremely sweet, pretty, loving and just the  perfect girl but about 4 or 5 months ago before meeting said girl I liked a friend of mine, the thing is that I proposed to this friend of mine and she said no (i'm too childish) but she likes me, so I don't know if I should give it a shot the girl I just met because if I do then my friend might get jealous or she might get sad, so this said I don't know what to do. Nick Replies: Well, if you loved your friend then how come within a span of 4-5 months you started loving somebody else. I understand its all about emotions but I would recommend you to be clear about what you want in life. If you fall in love over and over agin then probably you are not loving a person enough. Talk about this with your friend and don't hurt her but don;t worry about what she would think as well, becuase there are things that you cannot control and you should leave it the suprem

Friends with benefits !

My relationship is not really a relationship its more of a friends with benefits type thing. My fwb and I have been going at it for over a year now. We both talked to people but never had sex with anyone else. About 2 months after I moved in with him (after a year of messing around) I got pregnant. After finding out that he's going to be a father, he still continues to talk to girls. We're together all the time so I know he doesn't really do anything but it still bothers me that he still talks and flirts heavily with these girls! He knows it's wrong because he only does it when I'm asleep and then tries to hide it when I wake up. Or my personal favorite is when he takes a two hour shit when I know he's on his multiple dating sites. So my question to you would be, am I right in getting angry at him? And what should I do about it? Hi, If you have a clear understanding that you are in a "Friends with benefits" relation then you shouldn't get emot

Love Lost

Hi I am 22 year old girl. I am B-Tech student. I have been in a relationship from 2 years. I love him a lot. But the problem is my parents doesn't like this relationship. I want my parents in my life as well as my boyfriend. He is a typical man. I am unable to convince him, I give preference to my parents first in my life. I want him to get out of my life because he doesn't respect my parents. But he is not gonna go from me. Please suggest me a solution so that he could leave me forever, because I donot love him any more. Hi, Just speak to him, that even if both of continue the relationship it will be just for name-sake as there is no love from your side. The whole point in a relationship is to have reciprocating feeling and trsut, if either of them is lost then relationship gets weak and eventually dies. You will have to make him understand that, continuing this relationship will only hurt both of you and will spread to your family members as well. Talk & get it re

Over Possesiveness | Love Problems

Lately I've been feeling a little insecure in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. He is a very down to earth and respectful person. He shows me so much affection and I know we really do love eachother. Last summer for his birthday his brother took him to Vegas for 4 nights. One night he never called me which was strange because he's never done that before. The story he gave me seemed untrue. He said he drank too much and fell asleep and his phone was in the other room charging where his friend had been with a girl. I let it go. I recently found out he is going back to Vegas for his brothers bachelor party but he never told me when he booked it he had only mentioned he "might be going". Naturally, I was hurt that he didnt tell me everything and all the details because that isnt the way we are. We tell eachother everything. When i asked him why he did not tell me he said because he knew I wasn't happy about him going an

Confused in Love | Love Problems

I am in a relationship with a girl from about one and a half years. The problem starts with a friend of her whom she knew a year before me. He had proposed her once before we got in a relationship. Everything was fine then. They became best friends. He made her sister. Then after a year of our relationship he started proposing her again and again. My girlfriend never told me anything. He started telling her he would kill himself, He needs her and all those emotional blackmail things. She told me all this after a month. She said that she even told him that she loves him. They were sort of in a relationship. I was hurt and asked her if she loved him? She said no and then everything ended between them after a few talks. But now the problem is that he is calling her again. He says her that he's gonna wait whole life for her, And he loves her a lot. She told me all this last time we talked. I asked her to stop receiving his calls, she said she cant do that. She says she has ruined his

Love Problem - He has started ignoring me

hii m in relationship with this guy for 4 years now.but now he is ignoring me without any reasons when i asked him that u have changed and trying to avoid me he says no i m the same.i even asked him to break up but he is even not ready for that.whenever i try to call him he is always buzy on the phone with someone when i asked him who was there he always give me stupid reasons.i love him very much dont want to leave him what should i do? Hi, I think you should stop asking him the same stuff time & again, avoid calling him and let him call. Try this for a week, if he calls you then you should understand that he has feelings for you if he doesnt talk with him and understand what is the problem. If both of you are not comfortable then there is no meaning of a uncomfortable forced relationship. Thanks,

Broken Heart

Hi, I'm a 54 year old women, I fell in love with a 66 year old man. We were in a relationship for about 6 months. We were very happy, we enjoyed each others company however he broke off the relationship because he did not trust me or believe me. In all the time we were together I never lied to him or gave him any cause not to trust me. He broke off the relationship because it took me one hour and forty minutes to get home from my mothers. I called him about 10 p.m. to tell him I was getting ready to leave my mothers house. However I stood talking with my mother and left around 11:15p.m. and got home at 11:40. He got very angry and didn't want to talk or discuss any thing with me. I got upset and wasn't feeling well so I turn off the ringer and the volume of my answering machine. I took some cough medicine and went to bed. When I got up in the morning I saw he had called and left a message at 5:45 in the morning. I returned his call right away and he acused me of not being h

The Love Life in a Lovely Life

I am repeating the blog description here again as I am not sure how many would have read the description. Everybody loves somebody atleast once in his / her lifetime. Love is never a destination its a journey, a beautiful journey and in this journey there are innumerable factors that makes this complete. One of the factors are the problems that everyone encounter and most of the stories get finished due to unsuccessful tackling of these problems. These problems do occur in everybody's journey and the one who tackles it and tries to solve it, is successful in this journey. Why am I here I am just here to be a part of your journey, only in suggesting you the possible ways of handling problems. Again the question is why should you trust me or listen to me -- well -- I have no specific answer -- the only thing I could say is probably two brains are better than one. I could be suggestive and possibly view the problems in a different angle than you as I am an outsider with a neutralistic