Love Relationship Questions and Answers

There is this guy i have been recently dating and he seems very weird and mysterious to me . He never calls me during day time, rarely texts me and when i call him , he never receives. He calls me always at around 3 am in the morning and when i ask him what does he do that late he says that he usually sleeps till late during day time so he does his most of the work during night time. He doesnot like me asking him as to why he doesnot call me and he says not to doubt him . He always says he will call me and never does , its only after 5 - 6 times of me callig him that he cals me back. I dont understand whats going on . Nick replies I think you should meet and discuss this in person. It is important to know the person well before you take a plunge. His behavior doesn't indicate anything negative at all but as you have started doubting it it better to communicate

 MY RELATION IS 4 YEARS OLD I LOVE HER SO MUCH AND I WANT MERRY WITH HER SHE ALSO READY FOR IT BUT SUDDENLY ANOTHET PERSON COME IN HER LIFE AND NOW SHE ALWAYS IGNOR ME AND REFUESED TO MERRY WITH I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HER AND I WILL NEVER GIVE HER PLACE TO ANOTHER I ALWAYS CRY FOR HER I DON'T KNOW EHATI CAN I DO PLZ TELL ME WHATS THE WRONG WITH HER SHE HATE ME SO MUCH SUDDENLY. Nick replies Love can't happen one way, it has to ne reciprocative. If suddenly she is not responding to you or has changed after she met a new guy then might be that she never loved you. Grow up and be a man ! Don't force love, it just happens. If possible speak with her and get a clear picture, if she is not even ready to speak with you then it is not worth the effor. Move On God Bless !

i am 22 years old.i have been in a relation for the past one year.since a few months,my boyfriend(lives in another state)has started being hell dominating regarding my interaction with other males.he restricts me of even having formal interaction.i have deleted my accounts from social sites(he hates male batchmates send me requests and also suspects,i changed my number and not given my new no. to any male batchmates i know.things become miserable when i am not allowed to sit with my female mates if they sit with guys at the college canteen or go out for lunch,movie etc.so avoiding guys have made me go far from girls too(as they spend time with boys)and therefore i miss all the fun these people have.i about to go out for further studies and even there the situation would remain same.he becomes wild in such issues when i interact (or about to interact) with males.he is suspicious as well.i cant make him understand so i have decided to end it here.but i f ear what if he gets mad and thr

Hello Sir, I'm a 22 year old girl.m in long distance relationship my relation is pure but the problem is my lover not understand me he always using abusing words and lots to comment on my image but m always try to understand the things but all the things are on my image he can't respect me and my fellings in a small things he get angree and he realise these thing said sorry but next day he again fallow is attitude m to upset what to do ? :( Nick replies: Love and respect are like heart and heartbeats. They can't work separately. If your guy is not respecting you and he abuses you for no fault of yours then you have to put your foot down and say this to him. Inform him that his behavior is disturbing you and it will be difficult to continue this way. Say him that you love him a lot but these kind of behavior is creating a rify and distance in this relationship. Hope this helps. God Bless !

 i love a girl,her name ____,she also loves ma very much,we can't leave without each-other,bt i was alcoholic & lofer in my past,her mother think that i'm stell a bad boy in present,bt i'm realy totaly change now,for this reson her mother try to break our relation,i'm helpless,plz help me Nick replies: See it is very obvious on her mother's part because she will be apprehensive about giving her daughter to a "supposedly" alcoholic guy. But as you say you have changed prove it to her mother. Try to meet her mother and assure that you will be a strong support for her daughter. Also give her the confidence that you will not get into the earlier mode of being an alcoholic. It is only proper communication with her mom that can sort this problem and the communication should build confidence in her that you are saying the truth. A big factor is you have to prove that you will keep her daughter emotionally, mentally, physically and FINANCIALLY sec