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Friendship & Love -- Love Problems Solutions

but the thing i luv him so much ,unable to forget him he wants arelation with me but doesn't want to love or marry me . he fears for his family so much,but i say i can convince my parents as well as him ,but he doesn't reply ... what am i to do now Nick Replies: Be his good friend without any expectation.

Live Your Love -- Love Problems Solutions

he says that im his first wife and first love ... i don't what his intentions are ..what am i supposed to do ... i have engraved him in my heart and we were in a relation what am i supposed to do now ...? Nick Replies: Live every bit of your relation -- wholeheartedly... unconditionally. God Bless

Love with borders - Love Problem Solutions

I hav a cute gf. We r in relationships since year. I m hindu and she is panjabi (converted to Cristian ) I want to marry her but now she is saying me that she will not leave Cristianiti. And not accept hindu. She loves me lot but not Hinduism. She told me that she will not do puja path and not eat prasad.. N will not come with me mandir. And want to marry in court. Not like hindu style. .. Plz help me what should i do.... Nick Replies: Do you love her or her religion? Don't act foolish and this advice is to both of you. If you love just love or else get somebody who can adhere to your daily rituals. God Bless

Trust & More - Love Problem Solutions

Hlo, m Manish persuing b.tech, I love a girl 👧, she is very frank in nature, she talks with evry boy in d college nd if I told her to dnt talk den she rplies dat he is my good frnd. For this I m always in tention. In past 17 months we have breakup 20 times. And the breakup is done without any reason from her side. For this m always afraid so that I didn't tell any thing to her that why she talks dat which I dnt like...plzzz suggest me what should I do...??? Nick Replies: Trust her, that's it. She might be feeling suffocated. God Bless

Love Problems - The game of promises

Hi,, I'm 18 years old girl .I have been in a relationship .I love him a lot and I know he also loves me .But after a few days ago he had to know that his mom already engaged a girl (named Rosy) for him .And his mom promised that girl's family that she'll do everything to get that girl as her daughter in law . And she forced my boyfriend to make promise that he'll never talk with me .If he do this then she would kill herself. .That's why to save his mom's life,he is unable to take any communication with me . But our life is unavailable without each other and we don't want live without each other what should we do in this situation??

Love Problem - Within the Family

I have a boyfriend,he's 11 years older than me. He's separated with two kids. His children are living with him. I thought everything between us are good, but recently his daughter texted me saying that she never really liked my relationship with his father. I was dumbfounded. I always visit them and his daughter never treated me bad. I haven't spoken with my boyfriend yet. I've been calling and texting him but he will not answer. i love him so much but I don't want his family to have a conflict. I hope you can help me. Thanks a lot. Nick Replies: Its conventional. Children can never replace their mother. Talk to the girl and understand what's bothering her. Be good with her and win their confidence. You will have to practice unconditional love. God Bless

Love Problem - Too Complicated

Dear Sir my problem is very complicated... So before that let me tell you i am 24 she is 26 eventually what she had a number of boyfriends but not sure she had a affairs. i know her from past 1 year at time of starting i gave a clarity to her that " I need a relationship like life loong together i don't like break up in the middle i will marry u " so if u interested then we will... At starting should take me lite but after showing my love she just turned she showed Intreast on me but suddenly I heard that her ex boyfriend was came and she started talking with him she maintain physical relationship with him also and me too. i use to fight with him so i got bad remark in her heart. as i discuses lot of times as i am not loving ur body i am loving u i.. I know about ur ex but still i am not ready to leave her... i really loves her more than my mom also. I want to marry her but unfortunately I got bad remark even in front of girl parents due to i use to fight with him.and

Low Hanging Love

Sir.. I loved my sister in law ( bhavi sister) we loved each other and we going to marry bt. . Suddenly her mother cm to know about us.. then mother in law against the marry.. nw my lover is going to marry to someone else in next year and nw c also nt phoning me.. My brother asked to her directly about marry thn c denied for marry I cnt belive. .. nw my lovr is phoning in my hm and taking with my bhavi nicely. .. Realy I couldn't understand wt going on... Plz giv me idea wt cn I do...

The Tough Conventional Love Story

I was in a relationship with other caste guy for last 5yrs we wanted to tk dis relationship one step forward to marriage but he is saying his parents wont agree to this relationship . He loves me bbut he wants his parents as well . I cant live without him . If they agree dats good but wt if they dont . We cant leave each other neither we can leave our parents. Nick Replies: Its a conventional tough situation. The only thing both of can try and convince your parents is that, if both of you get married and things doesn't work out then 2 families would be in trouble but if both of got married to somebody else and things didn't work out then 4 families will be ruined. So request themto give both of a chance to do things that you love. God Bless

Language Barrier

Sir mai ek larke se love karti hu pr wo shadi nhi krna chahta pyar krta tha mujhe qki uski ek girlfriend ka death ho gya tha jisse wo shadi krna chata tha. ab wo kisi or ke sath busy rahta hai use pyar krnelga hai.mujhse bat tk nhi karta call receive nhi krta....sir plz mujhe mera pyar wapas miljae kuch aisa bataeye. please help me sir please. Nick replies: Kindly translate it to English. God Bless

Trust First... Then Love

hi.. Me and my girl are in relation from past 6 months amm from 17 Aug -14 :P. I like her since my childhood, no shez 21 nd me 22. She was in another relation before me which was according to her went for 4 years. Now the problem is she got admission in a university and she is making allot of friends.. i really dont like this thing .. somtimes i feel she is lying to me. The problem with me is I am not finny as much some guys are.. I really want her to be in me.. i dont to her to go to any body else... please help me in this regard. Nick replies Start trusting first and you will see the magic. Love is all about trust and giving other person the space to breathe. Do it and you will see a difference. And above all, if you love someone have the guts to handle the pain of he / she going away. Practice unconditional love, it works and I am saying this based on my experience. God Bless

It's Shy... It's frustrating

Hey, there need your help big time. I am 18, first year student. In December, I gave a rose to the girl I like in college. She was shocked at first as she didn't knew me exactly despite being in same class. I tried talking with her after that, but didn't quite happened. When we first talked, she cleared up saying 'just friends, nothing more than that'. I agreed upon that as I wanted any way to just talk with her. We don't talk regularly and overtime I have developed feelings for her. She doesn't seem interested. She's quite shy and keeps things to herself. A friend of mine told she doesn't interest in love and all and will probably ditch me or ignore me if I get too close. I too am a bit shy. But I really want to be with her. The end of semester is two weeks from now. I really get frustrated when I miss the chance to talk with her. Our practical time do not match too. Help me please!

Pay for ignorance

hi sir i have been in a relationship of 2.5 yrs with my gf but our relationship is long distance relationship. i m preparing for govt. job and for last 6 months we talk aur chat simply. but my guardian create pressure on me to get the job soon. that's why i prepare more seriously for 3 months and totally ignore her. and she also we never talk and chat for 3 month. but when i realise these things i met him and said sorry and crying in front of him but she denies me after some days she said to me we are to be a good friend nothing else and thats the final decision of her. but i really love her but she doesn't listen any more. so sir pls help me what can i do. i really love her and i mad about her. Nick Speaks Dude, You have been her for whatever reason. You ignorance probably have made her feel that she deserves something better and a person who can treat her well and give her that special attention. As an advice I would say talk to her and convince that you will not r

Totally Confused

I love ....... , She is also love me very much but before 2 years ago she likes some one bt they are not love each other but now this some person talk with my gf and she atracts to him bt my gf love me what can i do...plz help me.. Nick Replies From your question itself it is evident that you are confused in your love relationship. Honestly, even I am confused and find it tough to uderstand your situation. If can help me with simpler statement then probably I could help you.

Strange Request

I'm madly in love with my boyfriend and so he is,now we thinking of taking our relationship into the next level,the problem is that he wants atleast one kid before marriage but I want them all after getting married...  Nick Replies: Its a strange request that I have come up ever in my life. I think the idea of a kid before marriage is irrelevant and you should explain to your partner that this can happen after marriage.  I do not have anything specific to advise on this, For a person like me its common sense.

The Innocent Love

hi i am a 20 yrs old girl. i hv been in love with a guy about 2 years. we had a very good faithful relationship and were fully committed to each other. he is the same age as i am. we are studying in different colleges in different states. so we barely meet each other. we dont get to see each other. we had planned to get married as soon as we got settled. but recently some problms crept up between us. he was olws over protective towards me. and olws told me what to do and what not. and as a committed girl, i never had any problem in listening to him. but i m a bit childish by nature. i easily forget d little promises i make to him, lyk. i wont watch horror movies, i wont share my no with any facebook friends, i wont go out anywhere wtout informing him. he olws got mad at such thngs. he is a sensitive guy and i fully resptect that. but the problem is with me. i olws end up hurting him unintentionally. recently he was home with his parents and we dont talk whn we stay at our homes as