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Love Swapper | Love Problems & Solutions

i am loving a guy from one year.last year sep he came into my lyf we became close in a short period after 3 months his ex has came into his lyf.then he started avoiding me.he has fully changed.now he is speaking to me.but just like a frnd.i cant live without him what to do? Nick Replies: If somebody treats you as an option never ever making him / her your priority. I think I answered your query. Good Luck & God Bless

Friends with benefits !

My relationship is not really a relationship its more of a friends with benefits type thing. My fwb and I have been going at it for over a year now. We both talked to people but never had sex with anyone else. About 2 months after I moved in with him (after a year of messing around) I got pregnant. After finding out that he's going to be a father, he still continues to talk to girls. We're together all the time so I know he doesn't really do anything but it still bothers me that he still talks and flirts heavily with these girls! He knows it's wrong because he only does it when I'm asleep and then tries to hide it when I wake up. Or my personal favorite is when he takes a two hour shit when I know he's on his multiple dating sites. So my question to you would be, am I right in getting angry at him? And what should I do about it? Hi, If you have a clear understanding that you are in a "Friends with benefits" relation then you shouldn't get emot

Long Distance Love

Hello.I'm a 20yr old girl...I was in a relationship for a year which was a long distance relationship(another state).It was going very good in the beginning till 1yr.We both are of same cast and all.I was really very happy with him and could see him as my life partner.But with time he started to be busy and ignorant.He hardly replied to my messages and calls.He never replied me properly.I was really addicted to his chats and talks and when suddenly it stopped I was moved.It made me very sad.I asked him why he wasn't replying...He never gave a proper reason.I love him a lot and cannot think of loosing him....I cannot imagine anybody else in place of him....I got angry to him at times when he didn't reply...I now regret all those things...I want him back...I want the good old days back....Plz help me.....What can I do to get him back? Hi, If you opt for a long-distance relationship then be prepared for such situations. First of all try to give him space, he might be rea

Love Lost

Hi I am 22 year old girl. I am B-Tech student. I have been in a relationship from 2 years. I love him a lot. But the problem is my parents doesn't like this relationship. I want my parents in my life as well as my boyfriend. He is a typical man. I am unable to convince him, I give preference to my parents first in my life. I want him to get out of my life because he doesn't respect my parents. But he is not gonna go from me. Please suggest me a solution so that he could leave me forever, because I donot love him any more. Hi, Just speak to him, that even if both of continue the relationship it will be just for name-sake as there is no love from your side. The whole point in a relationship is to have reciprocating feeling and trsut, if either of them is lost then relationship gets weak and eventually dies. You will have to make him understand that, continuing this relationship will only hurt both of you and will spread to your family members as well. Talk & get it re

Love - Mistake - Persistence

i love a girl she is basically a junior colleague of mine, i proposed her but due to initial involvement of too many colleagues, making mockery of her, me then persuading her for me spoiled the relation . i got depressed and kept on persisting and she kept on denying and telling she is not comfortable. some of my acts in depression were extremely emotional. it is eight months now and i feel she took my depression as a negativity in my personality and my persistent efforts as weakness, she told several time it is infatuation. she blames me though never disclosed for initial discomfort too her. i love her truly and want the things to be corrected and need a solution which i should follow.please Hi, Well I have repeated this many a times -- "if you love something--set it free. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours -- If it comes back--It will always be yours" If you have the guts to practice a single sided love, do it but I wouldn't recommend it as

School Love

Hi i m xyz, When i was in 7 th std a boy in my class used to stare me, smile at me, always finding ways to talk to me...... he used to sometimes aswel sing song He used to be happy in my happiness and sad in my sadness slowly this continued and we reached in our 10 th std . me as well as my friend realised that maybe he loves me but he never confessed it to me. He is extremely shy boy very intelligent and thinks of the world more than himself. Now even i am in love with him . now he is my college aswel . i have confessed myself to him but yet he has not responded. My friends had smsd him askng about him but he replied that he is not interested in all this thing. But i love him a lot . what should i do now? Hi, There is a famous saying when love comes into picture - "Love is a free bird, set it free. If it comes back, it is all yours, if it doesn't come back it was never yours". Set your love free, love him but don't be possessive, if he has feelings

I love my Ex-Girlfriend's best friend

i really need sum advice.. a year back i had dumped dis girl before her b'day..because of that i had spoilt my reputation infront of her friends..now after 1 year i like a girl who's her best friend and i dont know wat to do..,i dont think that she wud ever say yes to me because i was the one who dumped her best friend nd she wud think dat i will do the same thing with her.. please help... Hi, First of all I don't know what is the reason you dumped your earlier girl. If it was a genuine reason then there should be no problem in confronting you thoughts to the new girl OR else try to asses her feelings towards you. Try to understand her feeling through some common friend and then take a next step. As I said majorly things depend on the reason why you dumped your ex-girlfriend. If it was a rude, selfish decision and her group sympathizes the lady then it might be tough for you to convince her friend. Thanks, God Bless

Over Possesiveness | Love Problems

Lately I've been feeling a little insecure in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. He is a very down to earth and respectful person. He shows me so much affection and I know we really do love eachother. Last summer for his birthday his brother took him to Vegas for 4 nights. One night he never called me which was strange because he's never done that before. The story he gave me seemed untrue. He said he drank too much and fell asleep and his phone was in the other room charging where his friend had been with a girl. I let it go. I recently found out he is going back to Vegas for his brothers bachelor party but he never told me when he booked it he had only mentioned he "might be going". Naturally, I was hurt that he didnt tell me everything and all the details because that isnt the way we are. We tell eachother everything. When i asked him why he did not tell me he said because he knew I wasn't happy about him going an

Confused in Love | Love Problems

I am in a relationship with a girl from about one and a half years. The problem starts with a friend of her whom she knew a year before me. He had proposed her once before we got in a relationship. Everything was fine then. They became best friends. He made her sister. Then after a year of our relationship he started proposing her again and again. My girlfriend never told me anything. He started telling her he would kill himself, He needs her and all those emotional blackmail things. She told me all this after a month. She said that she even told him that she loves him. They were sort of in a relationship. I was hurt and asked her if she loved him? She said no and then everything ended between them after a few talks. But now the problem is that he is calling her again. He says her that he's gonna wait whole life for her, And he loves her a lot. She told me all this last time we talked. I asked her to stop receiving his calls, she said she cant do that. She says she has ruined his

Sincere Love

hi, i just want to hear some advise from you. i have a boyfriend who i think not trusting me.it just start as this, in my school thers a guy who courting me, he knows i have boyfriend and im not allowing him but he continued.one day he text me a message containing that he miss me.. the one who red that message was my boyfriend and i explained it to him who really that guy was. but he still not believing in my explanation, and until now he thinking of me bad. that im doing something whether im not. this make me feel so bad, and the effects this to me is imy self confidence is lessen cause i think anything i do will be bad to him..it's hurting me so much.. Hi, I think you should spare sometime, talk with him & clear all his doubts. Even the biggest of wars can be solved with calm & composed discussions. Thanks,

The Love Life in a Lovely Life

I am repeating the blog description here again as I am not sure how many would have read the description. Everybody loves somebody atleast once in his / her lifetime. Love is never a destination its a journey, a beautiful journey and in this journey there are innumerable factors that makes this complete. One of the factors are the problems that everyone encounter and most of the stories get finished due to unsuccessful tackling of these problems. These problems do occur in everybody's journey and the one who tackles it and tries to solve it, is successful in this journey. Why am I here I am just here to be a part of your journey, only in suggesting you the possible ways of handling problems. Again the question is why should you trust me or listen to me -- well -- I have no specific answer -- the only thing I could say is probably two brains are better than one. I could be suggestive and possibly view the problems in a different angle than you as I am an outsider with a neutralistic