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Trust Issues

My boyfriend and me are in a relationship since last 3 years. It was a very normal kind relationship. I used to love him a lot since the day he proposed me. I could not understand that he is just playing a love game from me. He left me aftr the 2 months of relationship with some stupid reason.even after this i used to be very clean for him and finally he came back after 6 months and texted me that he wants me back. Moreover i forgave everything he did. Now relation was going gud. After our graduation we both have to take admission in different colleges. I forced him to stay in same city where i was staying. And he stayed. My problem was i never call him after reaching my home. Meets him everyday in college but never specially meets him. Aftr got admissions our relation was normal but after few months i came to know that he has talked his ex girlfriend. No matter i fought and forgave him. But later on i found that he is showing less intrest in mee and then i start exploring the reason.

Immaturity

He is from procurement team, and I am from marketing team. He has to take care everything related with the marketing team. Everyday, he comes to me and talk with me although it is not related with work. All of my colleagues are teasing me that he is liking me. I also aware of it, but we two are communicating like close friend. When I send the message, he replied immediately or a few minutes later. He sent the birthday wish to me at 12:00 am. I was so surprised. He told me I am the type of girl he likes. I am almost sure he love me. But, now he has to take responsibilities for technical team by order. I asked him you will help me although you move to other team. He said he will help me forever. After a few days he moved to that team, he treated me like stranger. Although I send message to him related work or other things, he didn't reply to me. His voice is also changed like stranger when I call. He didn't want to help me like previous. When I smiled him, he didn't smile to

Parent Pressure

I loved a guy...who is 3 years elder than me...he too loved me..and now there is an issue in his home..because.. of his sister's love..he was emotionally caught by his parents..and he told me that...he wants to live for his parents...and his parents can't bear..that he is also in love...so he said me to end the relationship... but I can't live without him...what could I do to make him mine...with his parents support...I'm 19..he is 22...years...what shall I do..I seek your advice... Nick Replies: First check how will your parents react. If they are supportive then ask them to help you in convincing the guy's parents. God Bless

One Sided Love

I love a girl who is also my friend. We have been friends for last seven years since 2009. I have feelings from then only. We are in touch very frequently. We see each other once a week. We go for movies,events, lunch, dinner, shopping, together. In 2010, I confessed my love to her, but she rejected telling she has a boy friend and few days later she stopped talking to me. So after one year in last of 2011 she again started talking to me. That time she said that she broke with her boy friend. Then we again started seeing each other. Again I proposed to her and again she stopped talking to me. Later in 2015, She started talking to me after I said sorry and I convinced her that I will be remain just friends not more than that. Now its been one and half years and we have been regularly seeing each other. She takes these meets as only friendly meets not dates. She not only sees me for movies, dinner, lunch or other events. She goes out with her other male friends as well similarly like me

I am substituted, I want her back

hi I am from India Typical Hindu family. since January 2017 I was kind of avoiding my gf just to focus on my studies to get a job so that we can marry soon but die to this she always had fights WID me. we didnt talk for few days. but I convinced her after few days again fights but during this period we also had good times and romance also in June stsrting she msged that she will see another guy,I just ignored her msg few days after on my bday she just msged me. on June 14 or 15 all her fone got off except one. I tried to call bit no answer now whole of July 2017 I tried to covince her by my msg romantic once our past romance.,times we spent etc I begged her waited her in front of her classes so that I could covince her once she to felt pity on me or what she said to have a lassi drink then go home coz I was swetting badly in the son when she saw me but on July 29 I sneeked into her hostel nd was shivring coz it would had a havock if I was caught I touched her feet to forgive me but sh

Either To Wait Or Not

In a coaching class a mate a guy.. He is hardworking, honest there is no doubt about it. he started to sat with me daily in classroom bcoz i am so good in study. he cares me alot bcoz of thiz i started luv him..i thinked that he also luved me. due to this i propose him in msg..he didn't reply me bcoz he understand that i don't want to propose first. then next day he propose me and i said yes..his exam is on june and my exam is on dec..after propose we r so happy. after 2 month of met we get intimated not sex..but smooch and most of.. when i am asked him that can we marry in future he said not no not yes just say in village luv marriage is not allowed.. then after completion of course we get separated i just had a phone number of him and nothing else. he is from some city and i am from some city. few days after his number continuously get switched off. i was thinked that he just want romance from me no love.daily i cried..then when my revision class is start for dec exam he cam

Love Problems

There is this guy i have been recently dating and he seems very weird and mysterious to me . He never calls me during day time, rarely texts me and when i call him , he never receives. He calls me always at around 3 am in the morning and when i ask him what does he do that late he says that he usually sleeps till late during day time so he does his most of the work during night time. He doesnot like me asking him as to why he doesnot call me and he says not to doubt him . He always says he will call me and never does , its only after 5 - 6 times of me callig him that he cals me back. I dont understand whats going on . Nick replies I think you should meet and discuss this in person. It is important to know the person well before you take a plunge. His behavior doesn't indicate anything negative at all but as you have started doubting it it better to communicate

Long Distance Relationship and Trust Issues

I want to say sorry to my boyfriend on his fb page but I doesn't know how he will react to it.we never communicate through fb but we did by messages and calls.we hardly get time to speak and both of us doesn't know anything more about each other.when he call I don't even listen his words i started speaking about myself.i doesnt have any knowledge about his job.understand him when he was in stress .he said he is busy and in stress but i constantly messaged him that u are ignoring me. to late know more than year. To be answered by the community

Trust Issue

I have slapped my Gf when I hear that she is going to meet a boy for a marriage my Gf parents have chosen for her from that day she was not having trust in me Nick replies: If you did this just because she was going to meet somebody because of family pressure then you messed it up. The case is that you do not trust her. Anyways, if you don't have trust on her then you shouldn't continue and if I was her then I wouldn't have trusted you as well. What you did was wrong, try to meet and pacify that it was impulsive and apologize. If it work then you are lucky. God Bless

Priority Mismatch

I'm madly in love with my boyfriend and so he is,now we thinking of taking our relationship into the next level,the problem is that he wants atleast one kid before marriage but I want them all after getting married...