Good Bye Neptune

Hi all,

This is Neptune's friend - Alicia. I regret to inform that Neptune left us last week and has started his journey to heaven.

He met with an accident and after a few days of hospitalization, left us forever. Before bidding good-bye he had asked me to tell this to every visitor of his blog.

Henceforth he will not be with us as a guide for solving our problems.

He has asked me to keep updating this blog with various relationship related articles and other tips. I will try to do the same though I will not be able to help people to solve their problems, as I am not good at it.

Goodbye Neptune !
May your soul rest in peace

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

I love a married woman

i m 23, unmarried , male, an EC engg. i n gujrat,
i love a woman of 22 who is near our society,
but she is married her husband ,mother&fatrher in low live with her,
her family is so much conjucted and i can't express my feeling to her.
so how can i represnt myself to her and how can exi m contecr to her please help me

S

Dear S,

Stop being foolish and try to find a girl who is not married and can live life with you. This kind of infatuation not only disturbs your life but will also ruin the lady's family. Grow up and take mature decisions.

Thanks,

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Confusion with two boy friends

hi!

My friend confront me about his feelings he said he loves me so much actually he is my crush...
and i think i'm falling in love with him too. the problem is both of us are committed, he is nice and sweet to me,
you cant blame me why i'm falling in love with him while im commited cause my bf ( we are 5 years commited, always have mis understandin and etc to make our relation more worst, take note m parents like him so much) dont have time to me because of some reason and he always mad at
me with wrong reason, at first the confession of my friend is nothing to me but everytime i see things that different to my bf
i can't stop my feelings.
please help me.. what should i do..??

how can i dtermined whose the better between them,,

Hi,

I think you should talk to your first BF, understand things. If he behaving the same and not ready to change then you should think other way. You are committed for last 5years so there is an importaqnce to this relation so try to talk & sort, if it doesn't work and you feel the other guy is better then you should go ahead

Thanks

Monday, February 16, 2009

Sincere Love

hi, i just want to hear some advise from you. i have a boyfriend who i think not trusting me.it just start as this, in my school thers a guy who courting me, he knows i have boyfriend and im not allowing him but he continued.one day he text me a message containing that he miss me.. the one who red that message was my boyfriend and i explained it to him who really that guy was. but he still not believing in my explanation, and until now he thinking of me bad. that im doing something whether im not. this make me feel so bad, and the effects this to me is imy self confidence is lessen cause i think anything i do will be bad to him..it's hurting me so much..

Hi,

I think you should spare sometime, talk with him & clear all his doubts. Even the biggest of wars can be solved with calm & composed discussions.

Thanks,

Monday, November 17, 2008

Article - Serious Relationship - How to judge a serious relationship

Below is an article by Raphael Ekpenyong, the article is kept brief and clear so that anybody can judge the seriousness of his / her relationship. I found it interesting and probably it might be useful for you guys !

How to know a serious relationship
By Raphael Ekpenyong

It is often cumbersome and brainstorming to determine if the relationship you are into is a serious one or not.

In trying to do this there are some factors or things you must look out for:

1. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to have personal secrets. They must have opened up about their lives to each other. If there are additional children i.e children out of wedlock.

2. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to communicate or see singles. Their major aim is now to always interact and be with each other

3. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to work on individual grounds. They should now see themselves as being one and as such work towards achieving each other's goal and aspirations. They must give 100% of themselves: mind, body and soul in the relationship

4. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to participate in online dating and opt out of such sites by volition and not duress.

5. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to be obsessed towards each and face the reality and settle down to the real business of relationship.

6. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to be thinking and seeing each other as two separate entities.

7. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to distrust each other. They must now have 100% trust for each other

8. The two parties in the relationship must be plain and truthful to each other

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Thursday, November 13, 2008

I Love the same guy


hi im in grade 11 girl!!!one of my friend loves a guy truly!!!!that guy acted as if he loved her then after some time he ditched her badly he started spreadin rumours about her!!!actually the guy she loves is the guy I love!she comes to me everyday and starts cryin in front of me!she says plzzz help me but at last I luv that guy!!wat to do plzzzzzzzz help!!!!

Hi,

Trust me -- If a guy can't respect a woman & spread rumours about her then he doesn't deserve anybody's love. Make her understand & you also understand. He is not the right guy for a relationship. The same thing can happen to you too, he can spread rumours about you. So beware of these kind of people.

Thanks,