Finally I am on Facebook !

Hi All,

Thanks for showing trust in me and sharing your problems with me. I have tried to be completely neutral in my comments with an objective to make your life more beautiful. I received lots of wonderful replies where they have expressed that I had made a positive difference in their lives thanks for those mails, I am honored.

I am trying to expand my bandwidth and try to reach to a larger audience with a dive into the social platforms. I dont know whether I will do justice to your expectations but I am encouraged by your responses and would like to take the next step.

I have built a page with my limited understanding of social media, you can find it at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Love-Social/298256730220001. Do spend time and have a look at it. As of now I have just started so you wont find much content in it, but you can always like it so that my little comments can reach you.

Thanks again and I am encouraged with the response that you people are giving.

Do visit http://www.facebook.com/pages/Love-Social/298256730220001

God Bless,

Nick !

I Do but should I

Am VSC (female) From Mumbai. Age- 24.

My bf NA Age- 30

We have been in relation from last 4 yrs. in these years there was no gal who came in between.

My bf is extremely a soft guy. I couldnt meet in between for 2 months due to my family problems which my bf knows very well and he does understand it..

The gal neha who is in his office started being bit close to him. and he fell in love. Some two days back my bf cried so badly and i got to know from my Bf that they are going on from last 3 months and they did kiss eachother...

The 1st day when i saw her i told my bf plz be far from her. But he took it lightly.......

Now i am not able to digest this thing as i love him more than my life.

i told him watever happened forget itr and plz flush her out. he said i should not breakup with him. He wants to marry and he loves me only.

I accepted it. I told him i will never leave him.

But plz advice me how should i go about this matter.

Nick Replies:

Hi,

I am happy to see that both of you are very matured. To answer your question, I feel you should go ahead because your BF has shown the guts to confess what he did, this shows that he really loves you or else he wouldn't have felt guilty. I really appreciate you for understanding him, you are a great lady.

But just make him realize that you forgive him and you trust him more than anybody else and such deed in future will shatter you.

I feel both of you will have a wonderful life together

Good Luck & God Bless !

Past Haunting Me

hello sir ,
my name is ............. i m a student of bsc (voc) first year. me and my boyfriend we met in last year in our phy tution.we love each other madly. infact i will love 2 say that he loves me much much more than i love or dan i ever thought.............. my bf's entire family knows about me.but my family is very very narrow minded only my brother knws dat i m in a commited relationship.but the exact problem is dat i had a very very damm bad wala past he knws everything abt it but i have a different kind of feeling dat i just wanna run away from my past and i don't wanna face it ever again in my life.i think i have already beared its punishment i hve already cried for entire 3 years for dat stupid relationship of mine.he don't have any kind of problem from my pst but i have built up a guilt 4 myself within me .i don't knw how 2 express my self my self but ya i reaaly knws is ki i just wanna rid of every thought of my past. i have a different type of guilt widin myself .which at times irritte him as he just don't wanna  me sad or lost in my past ...............................

please help me

Nick Replies:

Hi,

See in relations you are happy or you get hurt. To be honest I have not exactly understood what guilt are you facing but I respect your privacy & would not like to invade it. Well as far my advice to you, FLUSH AWAY YOUR PAST. You will not gain anything out of it. God has given you a wonderful opportunity to be happy again after sending a good friend / partner to you. If he knows and completely accepts you for the person you are then you are one of the very few lucky people in the world, generally it doesnt happen. So be thankful to God.

And for whatever reason you are hurt or feel guilty, I am sure the person who hurt you must be happy and enjoying his life. He might be going to movies, having a relationship, and doing all things that makes him happy. Then why are you SAD. Just think about it, if that person has hurt you then he doesn't deserve to be in your heart and mind. Be happy girl, Life is short. Trust in God and be happy with your guy.

Remove all the bad thoughts of your past and if you continue cribbing over your past then it may damage your current good days and wonderful days to come, is it worth it ? ABSOLUTELY NOT. If the current person loves you give him 10 times back. Just think about yourself, this guy and your family. Unless and until you dont be happy you will never be able to make others happy. Be Happy, Be Good -- Enjoy Life.

God Bless !