Love Relationship Questions and Answers

My boyfriend was an Indian nationality, bachelor and we are working in same company. We've been together for almost 3 yrs. I'm a single mom, i have 1 daughter in Phil. Her dad died 8 yrs ago when she's just 1 year old. For 3 years we r happy together, only this month my boyfriend confess to me that his parents wants him to get married and they r finding a girl for him to marry. His very disturbed and asking me what he will do, he always tell me he dont want to hurt them, that all his life he always disobey them. He loves me but he dont know how to tell them about me. Please advise me, Nick Replies: It is a very challenging situation, especially if the guy is of an Indian origin. Considering the traditional affluence and belief systems it is going to be tough for your boyfriend to convince this to his parents. If he can confess and convince his parents then that's the best thing to do or else you guys have a tough decision to make. But whatever you do just be sure t

I have been friends with this guy for the past three years and we have been through a lot.I had developed feelings for him initially but never expressed it to him.However,he realised that on his own and tried to make me understand that things cannot be the way I want and that I should move on from him.He reasoned that he is not still stable financially and that I had better to do with life and it's options.Even after all this,we remained the best of friends and were inseperable. After some time,I decided to date someone and found someone who sparked an interest in me for him.He,in the meanwhile had tried to date a girl but things didn't work for him.When he came to know about this guy that I am interested in,and the guy wants to date me seriouly,he started reacting in a way he never did before.One day he almost went on the verge of proposing to me but controlled himself in the last minute.Some days later,on the day that I was about to be going for that date,he decided to expre

I have two problems mashed together in a way, I like this girl, extremely sweet, pretty, loving and just the  perfect girl but about 4 or 5 months ago before meeting said girl I liked a friend of mine, the thing is that I proposed to this friend of mine and she said no (i'm too childish) but she likes me, so I don't know if I should give it a shot the girl I just met because if I do then my friend might get jealous or she might get sad, so this said I don't know what to do. Nick Replies: Well, if you loved your friend then how come within a span of 4-5 months you started loving somebody else. I understand its all about emotions but I would recommend you to be clear about what you want in life. If you fall in love over and over agin then probably you are not loving a person enough. Talk about this with your friend and don't hurt her but don;t worry about what she would think as well, becuase there are things that you cannot control and you should leave it the suprem

hi, i just want to hear some advise from you. i have a boyfriend who i think not trusting me.it just start as this, in my school thers a guy who courting me, he knows i have boyfriend and im not allowing him but he continued.one day he text me a message containing that he miss me.. the one who red that message was my boyfriend and i explained it to him who really that guy was. but he still not believing in my explanation, and until now he thinking of me bad. that im doing something whether im not. this make me feel so bad, and the effects this to me is imy self confidence is lessen cause i think anything i do will be bad to him..it's hurting me so much.. Hi, I think you should spare sometime, talk with him and clear all his doubts. Even the biggest of wars can be solved with calm & composed discussions. Good Luck and God Bless

Hi, While I was searching for some motivational quotes and videos, your blog appeared, and I am actually glad. I read all kinds of stories there but none matched with me which led me to write to you. Though my story is very confusing even to me, I bet it will be very confusing to you as well. So let me get straight to this problem. If you come from Indian or Nepali background, you get the idea on how our culture/tradition works. I have a relation with a guy who is lower cast and it has been more than a year. I come from a upper cast family plus we both are from a christian as well. Even though Christian people don't look for upper or lower but My dad does not want me to have any relations with him. Few months ago, my mom told my dad that I was having relation with him...after than, my dad went totally mad about it. I guess he can't accept him in future. My mom or any family members isn't like my dad... but the fact that my dad also has a bipolar disorder. I know he is sic

i am loving a guy from one year.last year sep he came into my lyf we became close in a short period after 3 months his ex has came into his lyf.then he started avoiding me.he has fully changed.now he is speaking to me.but just like a frnd.i cant live without him what to do? Nick Replies: If somebody treats you as an option never ever making him / her your priority. I think I answered your query. Good Luck & God Bless

He is the one who loved me first when I start to love him he star changing and he broke up with me and after six months we we started dating again but at that six months we was having sex cuz I ask him if we could be friends with benefit cuz I don't want him to go with other girls and again he brok up with me I begged him but nothing changed it been 2 years now I can't forget him and when he wants me he call and I go we do our things as usual even when he huv girlfriend so what can I do I love him I try to stop thinking of him but I can't. Nick Replies: The toughest thing to do is not to miss someone. Well it comes with practice and being engaged in something that you would love to do. So primarily identify what are those things that would make you happy? It could be anyting right from calling up your mom, going out with firends, taking up a hobby, working out or anyting that would make your life better, the best thing to do all of the above. Get going gal, life is b