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Time Management Problem

Hi there! First of all thanks for helping everybody out there... Well, my problem is; I'm with my boyfriend for more than four years.And I must say, the relation was not so tough before a year ago. I used to teach in a boarding school and I used to have summer and winter vacations with festive vacations in a year; so time management was not a big problem. Now, since I've joined a new job here at outsourcing company, I can't manage time for him.sometimes I feel really bad when he has to wait for a whole day and I feel like I'm not with him when he needs me.I don't get holidays here at my office and sometimes I've to work at holidays too.I can't leave the job bcoz you know, getting better job at the time of recession is very hard. He was okay few months ago but now the situation has changed, he says he has no problem with my mismanaged schedule.he wants me to give him some more time except holidays.He wants me to meet him at my lunch break but I can't meet

Dating is like Marketing

Dating operates in much the same way as marketing. Like a sales person you have to sell yourself. You dress up, put the product's (your) best qualities forward, and introduce yourself to as many people as you can. The more targeted the market the more people who are going to respond to you. Just like in marketing your fear of meeting new people will limit your successes.Imagine this scenario. You are going out to socialize with a lot of different people. You want this evening to be very successful so you put on your best clothing, brush your teeth, carefully comb your hair and splash on your highest quality aftershave. You cleaned out your car the day before and polished your shoes. Now that you look your best you are going to have to sell what you have to offer. That means putting away your fear of meeting new people. Are we describing a salesperson or a person trying to find a date? Actually, the same scenario could be used in both instances. The little snippet could describe an

I love a married woman

i m 23, unmarried , male, an EC engg. i n gujrat, i love a woman of 22 who is near our society, but she is married her husband ,mother&fatrher in low live with her, her family is so much conjucted and i can't express my feeling to her. so how can i represnt myself to her and how can exi m contecr to her please help me S Dear S, Stop being foolish and try to find a girl who is not married and can live life with you. This kind of infatuation not only disturbs your life but will also ruin the lady's family. Grow up and take mature decisions. Thanks,

Confusion with two boy friends

hi! My friend confront me about his feelings he said he loves me so much actually he is my crush... and i think i'm falling in love with him too. the problem is both of us are committed, he is nice and sweet to me, you cant blame me why i'm falling in love with him while im commited cause my bf ( we are 5 years commited, always have mis understandin and etc to make our relation more worst, take note m parents like him so much) dont have time to me because of some reason and he always mad at me with wrong reason, at first the confession of my friend is nothing to me but everytime i see things that different to my bf i can't stop my feelings. please help me.. what should i do..?? how can i dtermined whose the better between them,, Hi, I think you should talk to your first BF, understand things. If he behaving the same and not ready to change then you should think other way. You are committed for last 5years so there is an importaqnce to this relation so try to talk &

Sincere Love

hi, i just want to hear some advise from you. i have a boyfriend who i think not trusting me.it just start as this, in my school thers a guy who courting me, he knows i have boyfriend and im not allowing him but he continued.one day he text me a message containing that he miss me.. the one who red that message was my boyfriend and i explained it to him who really that guy was. but he still not believing in my explanation, and until now he thinking of me bad. that im doing something whether im not. this make me feel so bad, and the effects this to me is imy self confidence is lessen cause i think anything i do will be bad to him..it's hurting me so much.. Hi, I think you should spare sometime, talk with him & clear all his doubts. Even the biggest of wars can be solved with calm & composed discussions. Thanks,

Article - Serious Relationship - How to judge a serious relationship

Below is an article by Raphael Ekpenyong, the article is kept brief and clear so that anybody can judge the seriousness of his / her relationship. I found it interesting and probably it might be useful for you guys ! How to know a serious relationship By Raphael Ekpenyong It is often cumbersome and brainstorming to determine if the relationship you are into is a serious one or not. In trying to do this there are some factors or things you must look out for: 1. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to have personal secrets. They must have opened up about their lives to each other. If there are additional children i.e children out of wedlock. 2. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to communicate or see singles. Their major aim is now to always interact and be with each other 3. The two parties in the relationship must have ceased to work on individual grounds. They should now see themselves as being one and as such work towards achieving each other's g

I Love the same guy

hi im in grade 11 girl!!!one of my friend loves a guy truly!!!!that guy acted as if he loved her then after some time he ditched her badly he started spreadin rumours about her!!!actually the guy she loves is the guy I love!she comes to me everyday and starts cryin in front of me!she says plzzz help me but at last I luv that guy!!wat to do plzzzzzzzz help!!!! Hi, Trust me -- If a guy can't respect a woman & spread rumours about her then he doesn't deserve anybody's love. Make her understand & you also understand. He is not the right guy for a relationship. The same thing can happen to you too, he can spread rumours about you. So beware of these kind of people. Thanks,